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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
National Competition on Worries!
I'll introduce today's guests.
They are today's most popular idols.
Please welcome Jeong Yeon and Da Hyun from Twice.
(Jeong Yeon and Da Hyun)
Welcome.
We missed this person's...
powerful energy.
- It's Boom. - Hello, everyone.
It's Boom!
- Boom, - Yes.
it's your first time on Hello, isn't it?
- No. - Ever since you got into trouble.
I am sorry.
I didn't expect that.
There's first half and second half in your life.
Right. I came here in the first half.
This is the second half of my life.
- Right. - I'll carry it into overtime too.
(This is the energy we missed.)
I met him in private a few times.
When I asked him if he's well,
he told me about all the plants he was growing at home.
- Really? - I love growing plants.
Do you feel relaxed when you see your plants?
Plants have life too.
I once grew a plant,
and it was so healthy that new shoots kept coming out.
There's a plant that brings you money.
- You often give that as a gift. - Right.
When your business is not doing well, this plant dies.
It must've died in the five years you weren't working.
It completely died.
New shoots started coming out just recently.
(The plant is revived.)
I kept nourishing it.
Looking at green plants really healed my soul.
I heal my soul with Twice's song these days.
(Their new song is a big hit.)
- "Signal". - Seriously,
I love every one of their songs.
Please sing "Signal" for us.
Music, please.
("Signal" by Twice)
(Tingling, tingling)
(Sometimes they are cool, sometimes they're cute.)
(You cannot help but dance to their music.)
They are lovely.
- We can't get enough of it. - Yes.
- Do you have any worries? - Girls?
Do you have any worries? What can there be?
Tell us about your personal worries.
Ever since the debut, I've had short hair.
Right. You always had short hair.
I'm growing it only now.
My fans are saying short hair suits me better.
Isn't it because your hair is neither short or long?
Maybe. I can't decide whether to cut it or not.
- You can't decide. - Just grow it...
until it reaches the ankle bone.
- She's an idol. - That's impossible.
- She can wipe the floor with it. - This long.
- I really hope she'll grow it. - I see.
That's a tough decision to make. It's hard for men,
- so it must be tougher for girls. - It's tough.
What are your worries?
I'm 20 years old, and I want to be a good adult.
- What should I do... - A good adult.
- to become a mature adult? - Grow plants.
- That's it. - Do you...
give advice to other people when they're worried?
Older members give advice to younger members.
Younger members share their worries.
What kind of things do you worry about?
And what advice do you get?
I usually worry about what to eat today.
That's a big worry.
- That's a very big worry. - Yes.
- What are we eating? - What should we eat today?
Today, you should eat naengmyeon.
Kodari naengmyeon.
Why are you recommending kodari naengmyeon?
The weather is hot, and you feel lethargic.
You need something spicy to lift you up.
Right?
It looks like you have naengmyeon on your hair.
- It's like one serving of naengmyeon. - It's...
It's like the double-size bowl of naengmyeon.
(Her hair looks like noodles.)
We got three stories as usual.
Show us the keywords please.
What are the three worries?
- "Are You Sleeping?" - No.
- "My Son's Bombshell Announcement". - "I Want to..."
"I Want to Clean with My Wife"
Isn't this a wrong place to discuss that?
- Right? - Every story seems shocking.
"My Son's Bombshell Announcement".
Hello, I am a father in his 40s who lives diligently.
I have a son who is in second year of high school.
He was the student president in elementary school.
- He's great. - In middle school,
he was always praised by his teachers. This year,
he caused a trouble.
(What trouble did he cause?)
"Dad,"
"I want to drop out of school."
"What are you talking about?"
"Did something happen at school?
"No."
"Did someone bully you?"
"No. I just find school boring."
It's frustrating that he doesn't have a reason.
"You can't leave school."
When I told him that,
he started skipping classes after the first period.
- Goodness. - Goodness.
"You should at least graduate from high school."
"If you keep doing that, I'll become a delinquent."
He even threatens me these days.
I am worried that he might become a delinquent.
What should I do with him?
Please help me.
Did you cause trouble as a teenager?
Boom? Why did you look at me?
- Me? - Yes.
When I was in school, I never caused any trouble.
- Really? - I attended school well.
I caused trouble after I graduated school.
- Right. - Right.
You wanted to be a singer.
- Right. - Leka.
Leka used to lead the music industry.
My father wanted me to stop.
He said I've done enough so I should stop.
But I wanted to go on.
He told me to leave home then.
So I left home.
- You listened to your father well then. - What?
- You left when he told you to leave. - You left.
(It's been a long time since I experienced this.)
You can cause trouble,
- but leaving school is... - It was so sudden too.
- There must be a reason. - There must be.
Let's bring in the father.
Please come on out.
(Who's the father frustrated with his son?)
(Pyung Soo Han)
There he is.
Please introduce yourself.
Hello. I am 46-year-old father from Yongin.
- My name is Pyung Soo Han. - He looks young.
He's great.
He's the same age as Tae Gyun.
Hello, friend.
- You're the Year of the Rat. - Hello.
Right.
Your son is graduating in a year and half.
And yet he wants to leave school now.
My son is in second year of high school.
He said the time he spends in school is meaningless.
He's not interested in studying.
He doesn't understand why he has to go to school.
What is his dream?
I don't know what his dream is.
But he just wants to drop out of school.
Did he say that on one morning out of the blue?
In elementary school, he was the student president.
He was a class leader for three years in middle school.
But he changed when he went to high school.
- What happened to him? - I gave him a credit card...
which can be used to ride public transportation.
It was in the middle of the day,
and I got notified that he went to a karaoke.
- You got a text message. - Yes.
He spent your money.
Is he addicted to karaoke?
I asked him what happened.
And he told me the truth.
After the first period, he leaves school. He either...
hangs out with his friends or go to karaoke.
- He's been doing it. - From the beginning,
he must've skipped classes and hung out.
Did you try scolding him? Did you not scold him?
I told him he should graduate from high school.
And he said he couldn't have a conversation with me.
Then he told me this.
"If you keep doing this, I'm going to be a delinquent."
So I can't scold him or bring it up.
So we stopped talking to each other.
(The father-son relationship is in trouble.)
It seems that he's getting more and more rebellious.
He always plays games when he comes home.
Games.
So I called the internet provider.
And I requested for cancellation of the plan.
According to the experts,
you shouldn't pull the plug or turn off the computer.
- They advise against it. - Right.
And he left home that day.
- He went out of reach too. - That's tough.
Even if I want to talk to him, I can't.
When I come home, I can feel that he was playing games.
But when I check him, he's always lying on his bed.
- So... - He's pretending to sleep.
"Should I wake him up?"
"Will he be upset when I wake him up?"
- When he's upset, I can't handle him. - You fight.
So I just close the door and leave.
You must be really frustrated.
His son must have a reason for doing this.
- He must. Right? - He must have a reason.
Let's hear from his son.
Hello.
- Hello. - Welcome.
When you heard that he signed up to be here,
did you understand his frustration? Or did you not?
- I can understand him. - Yes.
But I love being free.
But school makes me feel trapped, so I don't like it.
But until middle school, you were okay being trapped.
There's something Dad doesn't know.
There must be something.
When I was in 9th grade, I missed school for 2 months.
(It started when he was in middle school.)
Did your dad not know about this?
- No. - Are you not going to study then?
- No. - Why?
I just want to do part-time jobs.
- Part-time jobs? - Yes.
He wants to earn money.
Did you do anything bad in school?
In middle school, I did some bad things.
But in high school, I didn't.
I just don't like being in school.
What are the bad things you mentioned?
- Is it smoking? - Yes. Drinking and smoking.
(It's heart-breaking for him to hear it.)
Did you not know about this at all?
I don't smoke.
- So I thought he wouldn't smoke. - You thought so.
Is this your first time finding out?
Yes. This...
breaks my heart. I'm shocked.
I am trembling inside.
Do you have any other dream? Studying isn't everything.
I don't have a dream. I think...
I won't be able to handle an office job.
I want to run a business.
Do you have any specific plan?
- Chan Woo and... - What kind of business?
- Making socks is an example. - Dong Yeob...
They tried running business. So tell them your idea.
Do you want to run a tteokbokki place?
I didn't run any business.
- Tell us. - Tell us in detail.
- I've never thought of it in detail. - Right.
I thought I wouldn't need school grades to do it,
- and I won't have to go to college. - He's avoiding.
- You're in second year of high school. - Yes.
Do you have to make your dad so worried...
for just a year and half more of school?
It's too hard to sit through period 1 to 7.
But life is hard.
- Yes. - If you do something else,
do you think it won't be tough?
- Is running a business easy? - Do you think so?
He sounds very upset.
I'm upset because my friend is frustrated.
(Thank you, buddy.)
During the school break, do you do part-time jobs?
No. I play games at home.
(What is that?)
At this rate, don't you think...
you will just play games when you quit school?
I decided not to. That's why I told Dad my plan.
But he just said I couldn't do anything else...
until I graduate.
He disregarded my plan,
and that made me want to defy him...
and to not talk to him.
Perhaps someone bullies you at school.
- No. - Is that right?
Are your best friends skipping classes with you?
Well...
I caught you by surprise, right?
Do your friends skip classes after the first period?
Well...
- I bet they do. - We skipped classes together once,
but we got caught.
Since then, my friends don't skip classes.
I do it alone these days.
- I see. - You do it alone these days.
What does his mom say?
My wife is cautious.
When she scolds him...
or gives him advice,
he threatens to become a delinquent.
That's why she can't say anything.
She didn't attend the shoot due to personal reasons.
- That's... - That's cowardly.
the most cowardly thing you can do.
You know they will suffer if you become a delinquent.
Don't you think it's very cowardly?
Yes.
In what ways do you find it hard to talk to your dad?
He drinks a lot when he is at home.
When I try to talk to him,
he doesn't listen. He frequently expresses anger.
(He frequently expresses anger.)
That's a bit hard.
- He talks to you when he is drunk. - Yes.
- You don't like that. - No.
I have a small gym.
- A gym. - I run it by myself.
I leave the house early in the morning...
and come back around 11:30pm at night.
You come home late.
Being entrapped in a small space...
builds a lot of stress.
That's why I drink and unwind...
when I come home.
Every man wants a thank-you from his wife...
and words of encouragement from his children.
However, everyone is asleep when I am home.
That's why I have a glass of liquor at home.
In those moments, I feel like I have become...
an outsider.
- You feel lonely. - I have that thought.
It makes me lonely and sad.
When do you feel like...
you are the outsider of the house?
My son goes to meet his girlfriend,
my daughter goes to meet his boyfriend,
and my wife goes to church.
Thank goodness.
(Thank goodness, she doesn't go to meet someone.)
We got worried for a second.
When they go out, I am alone at home.
I don't get to share meals with them.
- It must be hard. - One day,
my son ordered fried chicken and left some.
I was looking for something to eat...
- when I found it. - Of course, you did.
- I was hungry. - You had to eat it.
So I ate it. The next morning, he woke up and asked,
"Where is my fried chicken?"
"I ate it yesterday because I was hungry."
Then he slammed the refrigerator door.
"For goodness' sake." He did that.
That's ridiculous.
Were you upset that your dad ate the fried chicken?
I eat fried chicken 2 or 3 times a week.
He tells me to stop eating it since it's unhealthy.
I buy it with money I earn from working part-time.
That man scolds me and eats the leftovers.
That's why I got upset.
You shouldn't call your dad...
"That man".
You have no respect for your dad...
- in your heart. - You have no respect.
"I bought it with my money."
"Why did he eat what's mine?"
He isn't your friend.
You must know how hard it is to earn money.
- Your dad has always worked hard... - That's right.
to buy you your clothes, shoes,
and underwear.
That's right.
- Underwear. - He bought your diapers.
We don't know who bought his underwear.
He might have gotten it from his girlfriend.
- It may not be the right example. - I am sorry.
- You have a girlfriend. - Yes.
- Is she from your school? - Yes.
Then it must be fun to attend school.
Since she isn't in my homeroom, I go to her at recess.
I like seeing her for a short time,
but she wants to stay together for an entire recess.
It's hard to hang out with friends.
What is up with you?
Look at that guy.
He must be charming.
She wants to stay together for an entire break.
- Yes. - Is that why you want to quit school?
My goodness.
That's ridiculous.
Since we felt like we were scolding him too much,
we changed up the atmosphere.
- However, he didn't smile once. - No, he didn't.
His heart must be aching...
with worries.
- He is your child. - Yes.
Is that your daughter?
- Yes. - Even when the son causes troubles,
- she might lighten up the atmosphere. - Right.
What is she like?
- She is a bit worse. - What?
(What is he talking about?)
What are you talking about?
- My daughter is 21 years old. - Okay.
Since she lives at a college dormitory,
she comes home every weekend.
When she comes home,
she rarely talks to me.
She goes to her room when I come home.
She once registered my number as a spam...
for 2 or 3 months.
What?
Did you do something wrong?
Why did she do that?
My daughter played golf since she was in eighth grade.
- Golf. - She wants to be a professional golfer.
This year, she passed the semiprofessional test...
and became a semiprofessional golfer.
- It must have been hard. - I told her...
to pay for her own cell phone bills...
since she became a semiprofessional golfer.
Then she replied,
(Then she replied...)
"A parent should take responsibility..."
"for a child they decided to have."
"Why do you ask me to pay for my cell phone bills?"
Then she registered my number as a spam.
So...
This is a disaster.
(Who knew he would have a bigger worry?)
They are strong.
- They have a fighting spirit. - Let's talk to her.
Was he telling us the truth?
Yes, he was.
Why did you block his number?
Although I had only become a semiprofessional golfer,
he told me to work and pay my cell phone bills.
I blocked his number...
because I didn't want to talk to him.
When I heard that he paid for my cell phone bills,
I unblocked his number.
Didn't you think...
about how sad he must have been...
to ask you to do that?
No. It was something he always mentioned.
I didn't think he would be sad about it.
Still...
"Parents should be responsible for their child."
"They should make investments."
Do you still think that?
Yes. I didn't ask to be born.
Mom and Dad made that decision.
(My goodness.)
What is the purpose in asking him why he had you?
He doesn't invest in things...
I want to do.
As you know,
it takes a lot of money to play golf.
- That's right. - It must be hard...
for your dad to finance your career with a small gym.
If you are aware of it,
you should be more understanding.
When I was in high school,
I worked part time at his gym for a short while.
The gym was quite successful.
That's why I thought he would be able to support me,
but he refuses to do it.
Wait a minute.
How much do you think your dad earns...
in a month?
I know he once made 6,000 to 8,000 dollars a month.
What do you think?
- I don't know. - You don't know.
If it isn't too much to ask...
Experts say even small children should know...
if their family is having financial difficulties...
so that the family can overcome them together.
When things are bad, how much do you make in a month?
What's the least you have made?
2,000 dollars.
- Then you have to pay for the maintenance... - Yes.
of the gym.
- Then you have a budget deficit. - Yes.
How much money do you need...
for the golf lessons...
your daughter wants?
I used to spend 5,000 dollars a month.
- You spend that much on your daughter. - Yes.
I ended up arguing with her a lot since it's hard.
This happened once.
We were driving somewhere...
when my daughter asked me...
to continue supporting her.
I cried in front of her.
- You cried in front of your daughter. - Yes.
My father passed away two years ago.
At that moment, I missed my father very much.
(My father must have felt this way.)
When I started crying, my daughter asked me...
why I am crying.
(She didn't understand why he was crying.)
I used to act like my daughter.
I felt sad because she doesn't know how I feel.
My heart ached a lot back then.
It must have been heartbreaking.
Why did you ask him why he is crying?
I didn't understand why he was crying.
Then he talked about my grandfather.
He keeps saying that my grandfather must have helped...
in my becoming a semiprofessional golfer.
I worked hard, too.
His words made me upset.
I got angry and told him that I worked hard.
She took his words the wrong way.
She could have simply said, "He must have helped."
She got upset instead.
- They understand things differently. - They do.
For how many years do you want your dad...
to support you?
My goal is to become a professional golfer this year.
Dad keeps telling me to give up...
because he isn't earning enough money.
- I want us to try harder. - You now know that...
- he makes 2,000 dollars a month. - He is struggling.
He is struggling, but I am in school right now.
He wants me to work,
but if I work and study at the same time,
- I won't be able to practice. - You won't have time.
I won't have time.
We don't understand. You want your dad to help...
- so that you won't lose time by working. - Yes.
- That's what you have been saying. - Yes.
However, you are in a relationship.
I go on dates on the weekend.
(She suddenly became cheerful.)
She smiles when she talks about a relationship.
I worked at an indoor golf center in winter.
It was very hard.
(Was it that hard?)
It was very hard to add time and serve drinks.
It's hard to practice after hard work like that.
- You served drinks. - Yes.
You have time for dates. Your dad is asking...
to share the burden since he is struggling.
She gave us an answer to that question.
"I worked for a short while and it was very hard."
She doesn't want to help out.
You will stay committed to golf this year.
Yes, I will try until the end of this year.
I think I will make it.
(She becomes cheerful again.)
Okay.
You must be good at it.
I am in top five on college golf rankings.
Your hard work paid off.
She must take after you.
- It seems that way. - She should keep at it.
Did you know that your brother wants to quit school?
Yes, I did. He is hopeless.
Did you try talking to him?
I am in school until Friday.
I had no time to talk to him.
We are not close enough to share inner thoughts.
We just live in neighboring rooms.
That's all.
Don't you feel responsible as a sister?
No, I don't.
I think she has problems.
What?
- It's as if we have two worries. - Seriously.
What problems?
She isn't grateful for what Dad has done for her.
Whenever I ask Dad for something,
he refuses.
Since too much money goes to your sister.
When I was little, I liked playing sports a lot.
When I talked to Dad about it,
he said he couldn't pay for lessons.
Did he say that?
You didn't get to learn what you wanted.
- His sister got everything. - It's quite expensive.
It's not like I bought designer golf clothes...
with Dad's money.
I only got money to enter competitions.
My brother doesn't understand.
Are there times you wanted to give up playing golf...
because it's such an expensive sport?
Yes. When I was going through puberty,
I told my parents that I didn't want to play golf.
I told them that I wanted to quit.
They scolded me back then.
- It was stressful. - Was the matter the money?
Was it talent or exhaustion?
My brother blamed me for everything.
That's why I wanted to quit.
Why did you ask her to continue playing golf?
To be honest, I wanted to stop.
My wife couldn't...
- since she had hopes. - She wanted to keep going.
- Yes. - Your daughter has talent, too.
- She was doing well. - My wife didn't hesitate...
to owe money to support her.
- Did you have debts back then? - Yes.
An hour of lesson would cost...
500 dollars.
- That's a lot. - The burden falls on me.
I feel sad when they only think of me as someone...
who provides money.
Has your wife ever worked?
There needed to be someone by my daughter.
That's the way it is with golf.
Did she play that role?
A typical golf competition lasts 3 to 4 days.
It's a lonely fight.
Your wife always traveled with your daughter...
- while your son spent time alone. - Yes.
He had to be considerate.
They were away 4 to 5 days a week.
There must have been times my son felt upset.
That makes sense.
(Everyone focused on his sister.)
Were you lonely from childhood?
Were you lonely?
- Yes. - Your parents focused on your sister.
Yes.
You aren't saying that to have an excuse, are you?
- Is that it? - No.
That's not what he is doing.
I think you hold the key to this problem.
You need to thank your brother...
and your dad.
They made sacrifices. You need speak sincerely...
so that your brother can feel better.
You need to say thank you...
and sorry.
Only then can your dad...
get energy to work hard.
When your dad comes home after work,
you should approach him and talk to him.
Instead of quitting school without a plan,
you should share thoughts with your dad.
You can say, "Dad, please think about it."
Would you promise to try to persuade your dad?
- Yes. - Okay.
Sir, don't just bring soju and beer home.
If you want to talk to your son, bring fried chicken.
I think he will wake up at 11pm to eat fried chicken.
- Right? - He nodded.
Wouldn't it be nice to eat chicken...
while he drinks?
- Yes. - Try to do what your son likes.
- Chicken is the best. - Do you like spicy chicken?
- Soy sauce chicken. - Soy sauce chicken.
I bet you didn't expect that.
- The one that's fried twice. - Soy sauce chicken.
Let's hear from the daughter.
How will you talk to your dad in the weekend?
Why don't you practice it here?
Thank him for all that he has done.
Let's say you came home and saw your dad.
- Hi, Dad. - Hello, my daughter.
Thank you for your hard work.
Thank you.
Okay.
(She lacks soul.)
She sounds like she is the one being thanked.
- Seriously. - Thank him for everything he has done.
Thank you for everything you have done.
Why don't you express...
what's in your heart?
That's right. This is what they needed.
Since childhood...
(She breaks out in tears.)
They are meeting eyes for the first time.
Do you understand the reason for your tears?
- It's love. - That's why you are crying.
Dad, I hope you wouldn't drink as much from now on.
Please support me...
until I become a professional golfer.
I know that you are struggling, but let's try harder.
Tell him how thankful you are.
Thankful?
What do you like about him?
What do I like about him? I like that he is young.
Why don't you say a few words...
to your brother?
Hold on until I become a professional golfer.
Don't say that.
Promise to treat him well afterward.
- What? - The audience will misunderstand...
when you say that.
You continue to talk about what you want.
- The way you express your thoughts matter. - Right.
The way you say hello to your dad...
makes us feel like you are taking advantage of him.
- You need to learn how to express yourself. - Right.
I am sorry that I couldn't spend time with you...
because of golf.
I am sorry that I only thought about myself.
It's your turn.
- Come on. - Well,
since Mom and Dad only focused...
on you,
I mistakenly thought they didn't love me as much.
I hope...
you succeed soon...
so that...
we can spend time together.
My goodness.
(He speaks with sincerity.)
He thought his parents didn't love him as much.
Do you think it's a worry?
The entire family should sit down...
with soy sauce chicken...
and share each other's thoughts.
I think it's a worry.
I hope they solve the problem with conversations.
(It's a worry.)
I don't think it's a worry...
because they hold the key.
His daughter should stop taking...
everyone's consideration for granted.
She should always remember to be thankful.
She needs to be a professional at heart.
Many parents and children...
must be filled with thoughts after watching this.
If you think it's a worry, please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- In 5, 4, - In 5, 4,
- three, - Many people are pressing the button.
- 2, 1. - 2, 1. Time's up.
Say something to your children.
My son, I hope you will find a goal in life...
and become a confident man...
instead of thinking about quitting school.
My daughter, you have a dream.
I hope you will work hard to achieve it.
Please understand that...
I struggle from time to time.
I know that it's in your heart, but please express it.
Tell your son how much you love him.
This family only talks about what they need and want.
Express your love for him.
My son, I love you very much.
My daughter, I love you very much.
My goodness.
- All right. - He is tearing up.
He is tearing up.
He felt his dad's love for the first time.
Is this the first time he said something like that?
- My goodness. - My goodness.
Sir.
- Show him how much you love him. - Give him a hug.
- Tell him you love him. - Give your dad a hug.
Come on out. Your dad is crying.
- Right. - Goodness.
This must be their first time.
Do you feel like going to school a little bit now?
Yes, I do.
I'm glad he came on the show.
I'm so glad.
He's a good person.
Everything was resolved when his sister opened up.
Let's see how many votes he got.
Please show us the result.
"My Son's Bombshell Announcement".
("My Son's Bombshell Announcement")
I think his worry has been resolved though.
It's over 100 votes.
- 130. - It might be over 130 votes.
I think it's 120...
(119 votes)
119 votes.
(He got 119 votes.)
This one looks serious. "Are You Sleeping?"
Hello, I'm a man in my 20s who lives with anxiety.
I'm worried about my friend who acts weirdly...
regardless of time and place.
"He said he was going to the bathroom."
"It's been one hour. Why is he not coming?"
(Aren't you coming out?)
"Hey, what are you doing in the bathroom?"
Regardless of time and place,
Just like a newborn baby,
- he falls asleep suddenly. - A newborn baby.
(My friend is the king of sleep.)
A newborn baby.
"I smell something burning."
"There's a fire!"
(There's a fire!)
- He burned his blanket while smoking, - Goodness.
- and it happened several times. - That's serious.
I'm always worried something bad might...
happen to him if he keeps going on like this.
"Why are you wearing a cast on your arm?"
"Oh, this?"
"I fell asleep while riding my motorcycle. I'm okay."
Does it make any sense?
"Dozing off isn't a big deal. Stop worrying!"
He doesn't realize how serious it is.
He worries me to death. How can he be so calm?
Are there any ways to help my friend stay awake?
(My friend, please stop dozing off.)
It's too dangerous.
Jeong Yeon, what do you think about this story?
- I don't usually sleep a lot. - Is that so?
Which member of your group does?
- Da Hyun sleeps the most among us. - I sleep a lot.
- She's young. - Have you fallen asleep on stage?
- Sometimes. - Did you fall asleep...
- while dancing? - Sometimes?
(He's the cutest member of Cultwo.)
When I sleep for a really long time,
I sleep for about 26 hours.
She doesn't even go to the bathroom.
- My goodness. - That long?
How do you feel after sleeping that long?
- Do you feel great... - I'm sure she has to pee.
(I'm sure she has to pee.)
- She must go to the bathroom first. - Exactly.
- I feel really refreshed. - It must feel good.
- She's like a koala. - I see why you have good skin.
- Thank you. - That's unbelievable.
Let's meet this guest. Please come out!
(Who is the man whose friend falls asleep too often?)
(Oh, my goodness!)
My goodness.
(Yoo Geum Hwan)
He goes deeper than other guests.
(He looks unusual.)
(He has an overwhelming presence.)
- He's charming. - His trousers are charming.
(Especially his trousers are charming.)
I'm Yoo Geum Hwan from Uijeongbu. I'm 26 years old.
Welcome!
- He's cute. - How old are you again?
- I'm 26. - You're 26?
- Yes. - What happened?
What do you mean?
Does your friend really fall asleep all of a sudden?
Yes, he falls asleep too often.
Let me tell you how I came to know him.
I met him when I delivered pizza on a motorcycle.
We were supposed to take turns...
- to go on a delivery. - I see.
However, I found myself working all by myself.
- I became angry. - Right.
- You two couldn't take turns. - I understand.
- I was very angry. - You went to find him.
- He was sitting on the toilet... - Was he sleeping?
He slept for 2 to 3 hours.
- I did all the work, so I got angry. - Goodness.
There's another story.
I think you're exaggerating the story.
- He exaggerated his story? - Right.
I think he exaggerated his story.
- It's true. - Didn't you...
I didn't exaggerate it at all.
- Look into Boom's eyes. - It's true.
- Really?
- Will you swear it's true? - I swear.
(Believe me. I swear.)
One day, while we were walking on a busy street,
he fell asleep all of a sudden as if he fainted.
- While he was walking? - Yes.
(Is this really a true story?)
It's not possible to fall asleep on a busy street.
- That's impossible. - I'm not exaggerating it.
He really fell asleep while walking.
This is the most shocking thing that has happened.
I fell asleep while hanging with him in his house.
I woke up because he was snoring too loudly.
I looked back.
He was sleeping standing up like a zombie.
- He was snoring too. - That's unusual.
- I wish I had filmed him. - You should have.
- Maybe he was tired. - He fell asleep while walking.
Could it be that he suffers from insomnia?
- Maybe he dozes off due to lack of sleep. - Right.
- Does he work at night? - That's possible.
Both of you are wrong. He sleeps a lot at night too.
On his days off or weekends,
he sleeps for between 12 and 14 hours in a row.
Even though he sleeps for a long time,
he always seems to feel unwell.
He went to see a doctor because of this.
- Did he? - He was frustrated too.
- So he went... - He thought it could be narcolepsy.
That's right. He was called Narcolepsy Piggy.
- Narcolepsy Piggy? - Is that his nickname?
- Yes. - That's a cute nickname.
The doctor told him that it's because he's overweight.
Is he bigger than you?
I look smaller when I stand next to him.
I'm smaller than him.
(He really is bigger than me.)
He must care about his friend so much.
He came on the show for his friend.
- He cares about his friend. - They're best friends.
I do care about him, and his life is in danger.
- I see. - He fell asleep while riding a motorcycle.
While he was leaving with the delivery food,
he dozed off and fell down.
He crashed into a utility pole many times too.
He has been in a more serious accident.
- He was driving downhill. - It's dangerous.
He dozed off and was dragged with his motorcycle.
His elbow was completely crushed. He had a surgery.
(Doesn't he have narcolepsy?)
That's not all. He meant to smoke before sleeping.
He fell asleep right after he lit his cigarette.
- He burned his hand, - Oh, no.
or dropped the cigarette and almost burned his house.
(He almost burned his house.) subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
- That's serious. - Our staff members were worried...
- he might not be able to come here. - I see.
- It was hard to talk to him on the phone. - Gosh.
I see only one person who is bigger than him.
- There he is. - Hello. It's nice to see you.
(Who is the king of sleep?)
- Hello. - Hello.
He looks so cute. He's cute.
Are you not sleepy right now?
I'm okay now.
That's a relief.
You can take a nap if you feel sleepy.
- Okay. - Sleep comfortably.
You can take off your jacket if you feel uncomfortable.
- That's not necessary. - Okay.
You seem uncomfortable to us.
(You seem uncomfortable to us.)
- I feel comfortable. - They both are fashionable.
(Both of them are wearing denim outfits.)
- They're stylish. - Your friend told us...
that you are very big.
Which one of you do you think is bigger?
Do you think it's you?
- I think we're similar. - Okay.
- I weigh a little more than him. - I see.
Do you see why he's worried?
When I first heard about the show, I was upset.
It hurt my pride.
I didn't think it was serious enough for a TV show.
It hurt my pride so much.
He was worried about you.
- He didn't mean to hurt your pride. - Right.
I think my friend is good at telling stories.
- I always smoke before I go to sleep. - That's true.
I dozed off while smoking several times,
but I didn't burn my house like he said.
- There was a smoke though. - Smoke...
- comes from a fire. - That's how a fire starts.
That's how a fire starts.
- You're mistaken. - Smoke comes from a fire.
(I won't burn my house down. Don't worry.)
Tell us about the motorcycle accident.
I thought I was far away from the car in front of me.
When I opened my eyes, it was right in front of me.
I caused several accidents because I dozed off.
What about the accident where your elbow was crushed?
I don't think I was dozing off.
Do you think you just lack experience as a driver?
I remember there was a lot of sand on the road.
(When are you going to come to your senses?)
Do you remember what happened after dozing off?
I was walking on the street in Insa-dong with a friend.
- I thought I had fallen down. - It's crowded there.
My friend told me that I had dozed off.
Da Hyun is the one that asked you the question.
You should have answered looking at her.
Why were you looking at me?
They're so weird.
Why did you do that? Why can't you look at her?
I can't look at her.
(I feel like my heart will skip a beat.)
I was surprised. Since when did you sleep so much?
Did you sleep much since you were a child?
I didn't get stressed out or scolded because of that.
However, I gained 30kg in 1 month in high school.
(He gained 30kg in 1 month.)
- In one month? - Yes, during the break.
- I started a part time job. - How much did you eat?
He gained 1kg every day.
It's a fourth graders' weight.
I think that's when I started dozing off often.
At that time, I dozed off while giving a presentation.
I fell down. I also dozed off on the bus to school.
I went all the way to the last stop. I missed my exam.
- He slept a lot. - So I think...
that's when I started sleeping a lot.
The doctor said that being overweight was the cause.
Did you make the efforts to fix the problem...
such as losing weight?
My friend sitting with you nags me to lose weight,
but I think he should lose weight too.
(Know yourself, my friend.)
- I once lost 30kg in 2 to 3 months. - Awesome.
I took medicine and ate less.
However, losing weight wasn't very effective.
I thought I was better after losing weight.
I felt that,
but my friends said I didn't change. - I see.
So I gave up.
(There was no change despite his efforts.)
I can't understand him.
- I don't take a nap. - Me neither.
I heard taking a nap is bad.
As I was listening to him, I saw that he has...
a tone of voice that makes others feel sleepy.
- He doesn't seem energetic. - His eyes look sleepy.
If he just closes his eyes, he would sleep deeply.
If he closes his eyes now, he would sleep deeply.
- The facts... Don't fall asleep! - He's dozing off.
- He'll fall asleep. - That's good. Stay awake.
I think his looks play a role in making him sleepy.
- His eyes... - Keep your eyes open!
He has sharp eyes.
I think his overall looks bring the sleepy energy.
Let's meet with his other friends.
Hello.
Hello, I'm Kim Soo Ho. I'm Jung Da's friend.
All of his friends have a big physique.
Are you worried about him too?
Yes, I'm worried about him a lot.
When I meet up with Jung Da alone...
Jung Da?
- His name is Jung Da. - His name is Jung Da.
Jung Da? What's his family name?
His family name is Jung.
- His family name is Jung? - Yes.
We just heard his nickname Narcolepsy Piggy.
I didn't know he had a name.
- Now we know his name. - Is his first name Da?
- Yes, it's Da. - I see.
- His name is Da. - He once asked me...
for help in losing weight.
I used to be a fitness instructor.
- That's why he looks muscular. - I weighed him.
I checked his weight.
The scale showed an error code.
- The scale did the right thing. - It turned out...
that it happens when someone weighs over 150kg.
(It happens when someone weighs over 150kg.)
Didn't he doze off on the treadmill?
I never saw him dozing off on the treadmill...
because he didn't exercise that long.
He didn't exercise long enough.
There's another problem that's more serious.
- What is it? - He snores so much while sleeping.
- He snores? - Yes.
- He must have sleep apnea. - Sleep apnea?
He stops breathing while sleeping.
How long does he stop breathing?
- When I saw him snoring, - He might fall asleep.
he stopped breathing for up to one minute.
- One minute? - Yes.
I thought he had died.
(Do you still think you don't have a problem?)
- Da. - Yes?
Don't you worry about your health? You have problems.
I heard about people with sleep apnea...
or narcolepsy whose daily lives are challenging.
I don't think my condition is that serious.
(He still doesn't admit his problem.)
You could cause other people trouble.
Don't you worry about that?
I don't think I'm a nuisance because of this.
You keep causing trouble unintentionally.
- You snore louder than other people. - Exactly.
- What do you think? - You must know better than us.
You're right. He's a nuisance.
He snores in public places such as movie theaters.
It's embarrassing when he snores in a movie theater.
It's annoying when someone snores.
- He snores when it's quiet. - Does he?
He snores loudly.
What kind of scenes are they?
- A kissing scene? - That's right.
Imagine he snores when it's a matter of life and death.
That would ruin the mood.
(You can fall asleep when you're tired.)
- He used to work at a security company. - I see.
- The job requires a high level of focus. - Right.
- You need to stay alert. - It's a dangerous job.
He never stayed alert. He let himself relax and slept.
He was two hours late for work.
- He overslept. - That's right.
He didn't answer his phone either.
- I was scolded just because he's my friend. - Right.
Is he punctual when he meets you?
He's always late.
I once waited for him for six hours alone.
- Why? - I guess he didn't answer your calls.
He didn't. I don't know why he has a phone.
He can't answer the phone because he sleeps.
I call him 40 to 50 times at most.
- I have visited his house too. - You must get angry.
Yes, I get angry.
(I am mad.)
Is he still working at the security company?
No. I'm still working there, but he quit.
- Was he fired? - He was scolded too often.
He was always late for his shift because he slept,
but he was paid.
Maybe he felt guilty. He quit the job.
It's not bad just for the job at a security company.
Wouldn't it be a problem at any company?
- Exactly. - Don't you think so?
Absolutely. I'm so worried.
- He should... - The problem is he's too positive.
It's only us that are worried about his problems.
- He's too positive about them. - That's right.
- He keeps smiling. - "I got a few missed calls."
He got 60 missed calls.
If he gets an office job,
- Exactly. - I don't think he can blend in.
- I'm sure of it. - He needs a job where he sleeps.
- Exactly. - Is it true...
that you quit your job because you sleep too long?
No. My friend seems to be mistaken.
I was planning to start my own business.
That's why I quit. It wasn't because I sleep a lot.
- I was scolded a few times, - Okay.
but we didn't get scolded that often.
(I was scolded while you were sleeping.)
You must have dated a girl, right?
- Of course, I have. - Are you seeing someone?
No, I'm not.
Didn't your sleeping habit cause any trouble?
No, never.
- He stays awake on a date. - He stays awake.
- I think that's a lie. - Please be honest with us.
It was when I was in elementary school.
Okay.
- I had no problem... - He was in elementary school.
(What kind of person is he?)
- He talked as if he dated many girls. - Why?
Did Da date a lot of girls?
No, he can't date anyone.
As far as I know, he has been single his entire life.
- Is that so? - Yes.
- Oh, my. - He has never dated anyone.
- He's been single his entire life. - Yes.
He was in elementary school on his most recent date.
That's not true. Before I started sleeping so long,
until middle school...
- Your friend cares so much about you. - Right.
He tried to help you too.
- Why are you being so brazen? - Exactly.
That's true. Da made him wait for six hours.
- Exactly. - Don't you feel apologetic?
It hurts my pride...
- to say sorry. - Your pride?
- Why would it hurt your pride? - It must hurt...
- his pride. - He waited for you for six hours.
"I could have slept for seven hours!"
That's ridiculous. Why would it hurt your pride?
(He makes my blood boil.)
You can't maintain relationships if you're always late.
Meeting with your friends is casual.
- Goodness. - You can see your friends anytime.
Do you think it's not serious?
I think he can understand me.
So it's true that I'm being brazen.
(He's dumbfounded.)
(He has a serious problem.)
- He can't realize the seriousness. - He's positive.
- He's too positive. - What do you think?
That's how he is.
"That's how he is."
- He's just brazen. - His friends must be frustrated.
I have a favor to ask of him.
- He dozes off even while riding a motorcycle. - Yes.
He closes eyes as it's cool inside and the sun is warm.
- While he's driving a car? - When you stop at red,
you put the gear to neutral and step on brakes.
He dozed off and crashed into the car in front of him.
- He caused many accidents. - Really?
- Yes. - That's too dangerous.
- He does drive a car. - Yes.
What made me really angry was...
he was driving at 80km per hour on a highway.
I was in the front seat, and the car was swerving.
I looked at him, and he was snoring.
- He was snoring? - Yes.
(He was dozing off while driving on the highway.)
I turned the wheel and made him pull over.
I told him not to drive, but he was so brazen he said...
that he did that as a joke to scare me.
(He didn't apologize or admit it.)
He kept making ridiculous excuses.
- It's a matter of life and death. - Exactly.
I can't believe it was a joke.
Why didn't you drive instead of him?
I tried, but he insisted that he's not dozing off...
and that he's just taking a break.
There are people who never let others drive their cars.
He's one of them.
- He's weird. - You could...
- lose your life. - It's dangerous.
I don't think I doze off while driving.
- He never admits his mistakes. - If I let him drive,
it means that I admit I dozed off.
- So what? - It'd hurt my pride.
If you are sleepy, you should take a nap.
- You should... - Does admitting it hurt your pride?
No. I just don't think that's a big problem.
- You said you don't cause others trouble. - No way.
When you cause an accident,
you could hurt yourself as well as other people.
What would you do if you hurt other people?
That has never happened before.
That's why you have to be careful.
I didn't think that would happen.
As I listened to him,
- it sounds more dangerous. - It really is dangerous.
- You can say he has narcolepsy. - That's right.
I've never thought I have narcolepsy.
- Also, I snore a lot, right? - Yes.
However, that doesn't cause anybody trouble.
(How could you say that?)
- You know... - He's addicted.
Our writers thought he might have narcolepsy.
- So they took him to a hospital. - Really?
Let's watch the video together.
(The examination of laryngopharynx)
He looks cute.
I thought he was Kim Joon Hyun.
(Polysomnography)
- He's really fat. - He's having a sleep apnea test.
- He's sleeping. - He needs it.
That's interesting.
- He has a lot on his face. - Exactly.
- He has sleep apnea. - My goodness.
(Snoring)
He's snoring loudly.
I can see why he wanted to throw it at Da.
Narcolepsy is a disorder of REM sleep.
Looking at the patient's brainwave,
REM sleep occurred in 90 minutes after he fell asleep.
It's not narcolepsy due to a disorder of REM sleep.
I'm relieved.
Then, why does he always feel tired and sleepy?
That's because he has obstructive sleep apnea.
Up to 10, it's mild sleep-related breathing disorder.
It's average between 11 and 20, and serious over 21.
It's very serious over 31.
The patient is 128.6.
(His test result is 128.6!)
It's 128.6.
- My gosh! - It's the highest record I've seen.
- He's in very serious condition. - That's so high.
He only snores and feels sleepy during the day for now,
but he could develop cardiovascular diseases...
and even a severe type of stroke.
- Stroke? - Therefore,
he needs to have a surgery...
or positive airway pressure therapy.
- As we saw, - It's serious.
he always feels tired due to sleep apnea.
- He said it's serious over 30. - It's severe.
- His result was over 120. - It was 128.
It's three times higher.
It's four times higher.
(Let me see.)
- It's four times higher? - Yes, it is.
Do you realize how serious your condition is?
- Yes, I am in shock right now. - I see.
- I will lose weight and... - Okay.
I should put in more effort so it won't affect my life.
You must lose weight because of your sleep apnea.
Yes, I think so.
(The result changed his idea.)
- If your problem is fixed, - How cute.
what do you want to do first?
I'd like to see a movie at a movie theater.
- Without sleeping. - From beginning to the end.
- I always... - He falls asleep in the middle.
I either don't know the ending...
(My goodness.)
Have you never stayed awake throughout a movie?
- I think he was never awake. - I think so.
It's really serious then.
Losing a bit of weight boosts your self-esteem.
Don't you want to make a girlfriend?
- Well... - You're 26 years old.
Men not dating women at that age...
is one of the worst sins.
(You're guilty if you don't love another at 26.)
I like women.
What type of girls do you like?
I...
There are three women here.
Da Hyun, Jeong Yeon, or Yeong Ja.
Pick one.
The one on the very right.
- It's Da Hyun. - Da Hyun's style.
- Thank you. - What do you think, Da Hyun?
Tell him to lose weight.
You should tell him to lose weight.
(We need to motivate him to lose weight.)
You're so...
She's nice, but she mumbles since she's speechless.
(Mumbling)
Tell him straight up.
- You're so... - Da Hyun, be honest.
From what the doctor said, I think it's serious.
Lose weight and live a long and healthy life.
"Live a long and healthy life."
"Live long!"
Lastly, say a few words to your friend.
Jong Dal, let's lose weight together.
Let's work out together and lose weight like before.
I think your self-esteem has gone very low.
For example, I try to set him up on a date.
"Many don't care if you're fat or not. See her once."
"Nobody will see me."
He avoids the occasion.
That's why I think his self-esteem has gone low.
I hope he'll get medical treatment and become active.
- What a great friend. - Do you have a girlfriend?
I have a wife.
(He is married.)
- You're married? - You're so cool.
(His self-esteem is very high!)
Let's see if the guests think it's a worry or not.
- The weather is great these days. - You're right.
Hoping that he'll see beauty and get the energy...
rather than sleeping, I pressed the button.
I get that you sleep a lot, but since it's...
life-threatening, I think it's a worry.
Okay.
I hope Da Jung will...
- be healthy. - It's Jung Da.
- It's the American way. - Da Jung.
- Da Jung. - That's a Korean way.
Hoping that Jung Da will be healthy,
- I think it's a worry. - You should live long.
"Jung Da, live long."
If you think it's a worry, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
It'll get a lot of votes.
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1,
- stop. - time's up.
Jung Da, say a few words...
to your friend. He's a really good friend...
who shared his worry with us.
I didn't think it's serious enough to be aired.
After coming here, I realized that it's pretty serious.
I'm sorry for always cursing and venting at you.
Thank you for your concern about me.
Thank you.
It's so nice to see them reconcile.
Show us how many votes his story got.
Here's the result.
- It got over 100 votes. - It got over 100 votes.
- It did get over 100 votes. - Is it 120 votes?
- Is it 140 votes? - 150 votes?
Is it 150? 150?
It got 130 votes.
(The story got 130 votes.)
"I Want to Clean with My Wife".
Hello, I have kids that are 4 and 3 years old.
It's been four years since I got married.
I actually want to talk about my wife.
"Honey, there's a huge pile of dishes since yesterday."
"Don't you think you should do the dishes?"
"I'll do it later."
- Is that so? - "If you're tired, I'll do it."
"Please leave them alone!"
- "Leave them! Later, later!" - "Later".
My wife always says "later".
It's about cleaning.
"When would that "later" be?"
"When I am mentally ready."
(When I am mentally ready.)
It's nothing.
I wonder when she will be ready mentally.
"Our son might hurt his eyes from opening..."
"the cabinets under the sink."
"Shall we tape the door?"
- "Later". - "Later".
My son ended up hurting his eyes.
(His child ended up hurting his eyes from the cabinet.)
"He has a bad fever. We better take him to the hospital."
Even that?
"It's 38℃?"
"Let's go later."
"It's okay for now."
She might kill our child.
I'm posting it because I'm curious how others live.
(Honey, let's clean up together!)
We'll invite the husband to the stage. Come on out!
(Who's worried about his procrastinating wife?)
(Jang Jin Hee)
Gosh, he's young.
Goodness.
- He's charming. - He's young.
(Welcome to the show.)
Does your wife really procrastinate everything?
Gradually, she did neither the dishes nor the laundry.
That's why I mostly do them.
However, when I tell her to do it...
- "Later". - Yes, it's like that.
- It's like that. - Yes.
She keeps all the unnecessary stuff at home from...
the clothes she never wears. We have two kids,
and we have about 500 books.
Your house must be really spacious.
- It's only about 50m² - It'll be tight.
There's only a small space to walk.
- She doesn't want to bother. - Exactly.
She doesn't collect them, right?
- The ones my kids read... - It's not for collection.
(It must be hectic.)
- Does she do it later then? - How long does it take?
How long is "later" for her?
When she makes up her mind to do it.
(When my wife makes up her mind, she does the chores.)
- That mind... - There's not even a period of time.
She just needs to make up her mind.
(It's unknown when the cleaning will begin.)
I work for different shifts now,
so I sometimes come home at midnight.
When I'm home, I see diapers and trash.
- The used wipes are by the diaper. - The wipes.
- They're just on the floor? - On the floor?
- On the floor? - Yes.
It's like a mine.
(It's like a mine.)
There are leftover crumbs too.
- The snack's crumbs. - My second child is young,
- so she picks up and eat them. - Of course.
That's why...
I'm stressed out about the hygiene too.
Then what does your wife do...
when you clean and do the dishes?
She sits in the room and watches TV or uses her phone.
What does she do for work?
She helps mothers to help their kids...
- with reading. - I see.
Before she started working, it was about half and half.
It's been three months since she worked,
and I do most of the housework.
Now that she's working, she does less.
When she's working, she does no chores.
What if you just don't clean up at all?
The kids' stuff, garbage,
and diapers are all mixed together,
- so I cannot even walk around. - It's really bad.
(Everyone's shocked!)
Oh, dear.
(Filthy)
- Oh, dear. - It's worse than I imagined.
Your child cannot even walk around.
- Wait, isn't that underwear? - He could get hurt.
He's looking for a space to walk around.
- It's not my underwear. - Look at the child's face.
"Mom, where should I go?"
- Oh, my. - Goodness.
Look at the dishes.
- "Later". - There are two bottles of soju there.
(There's a pile of dishes in the sink.)
Who drank the soju?
- I did. - Oh, dear.
(Everywhere in the house is a total mess.)
- Oh, dear. - There's only enough space...
to dine for one person on the table.
- Only that much. - Over there.
- He eats at a corner. - Only this much is left.
- At a corner. - If it's filled, he'll be in trouble.
- It's usually worse than that? - With kids,
- your house becomes dirty very soon. - That's right.
If your house was a bit larger,
you would've had drawers to arrange things,
but either the husband or the wife...
should be diligent in this case.
Or the other must provide help.
Your place will be messy within seconds.
We'll meet your wife, Ms. Later.
- Where are you? - Hello.
(Who procrastinates housework while screaming "later"?)
The expression "later" suits her.
- She smiles with her eyes. - Do you also...
admit the fact that you procrastinate?
I don't want to bother, and I'm tired.
- Can we hear how you say "later"? - "Later".
"Honey, clean this up. It's dirty."
I'll do it later.
- The traditional way. - Yes.
What a nice tone. "I'll clean up later."
- It sounded a bit desperate. - Totally.
I'll do it later.
- It's convincing. - With such tone,
- you'd believe that she'll do it. - He was deceived.
She didn't yell. "I'll clean up later."
(He would've fallen for it often.)
(Gosh)
After saying "later", when you make up your mind,
- you clean things up. - That's right.
What's your standard, and when would that be?
I always think about cleaning. However,
when I watch TV, I'd turn the channel after a show,
and then I sometimes end up sleeping.
A few days would pass by like that.
If there's mold in the dishes...
I don't leave the dishes dirty over three days.
- I do the dishes the day after. - She has her rule.
She has her own rule.
There won't be enough clean dishes after three days.
(There aren't enough clean dishes after 3 days.)
The used diaper...
and the used wipes on the floor...
- What about those? - After dressing his pants,
he'd ask me to do things. "Mom, do this for me."
I think that I should put that as priority,
so I'd do that first, then I end up procrastinating.
In the end, the diaper stays there until they sleep.
- It doesn't even take much time. - Just pick it up.
When I'm cleaning, they bring other stuff,
so I feel that I've reached my limit.
- Your kids are 4 and 3 year old, right? - Yes.
It's when kids make the most mess.
Can't you put up with the mess for now?
I'm worried that they'll get hurt.
He seemed really serious.
- "Where should I go?" - It's because...
- The toys... - He was struggling.
- Clean together... - When books are open,
- my kids slip... - That's right.
- They could slip from running. - They fall often.
I think all kids fall...
and step on the toys they made a mess with.
I believe it's the same for all houses.
When it comes to books, my kids read a lot.
- They do? - That's why I don't throw them away.
There was a pile of stuff on the dining table too.
- Shouldn't you throw them away? - That's...
the dish rack. Since our sink is narrow,
there's no space to put it. That's why we put it there.
There's another dining table we use.
Why don't you throw away the old shoes and clothes?
As for shoes and clothes... When I was in college,
I wore high heels although I'm 167cm tall.
- My gosh. - My husband is a bit shorter than me.
- I'm much taller than him with my heels on. - Right.
I can't wear them when I'm with him, so...
when I go out alone, I might be able to wear them.
- That's part of the reason. - I see.
- She sounds very logical. - How strange.
Those who don't do much keep talking.
- They come up with plausible excuses. - Exactly.
Was there an occasion where she procrastinated...
a bit too much?
My first child is 34 months old.
He's still wearing diapers.
You need to keep potty-training your child.
Yes. But she's not doing it.
This happened recently.
I had bought some barley buns.
When she was feeding our kids, I had some too.
There was mold inside,
so I was shocked.
(She fed her kids without knowing about the mold.)
- She put them outside. - They go bad soon.
- Yes, for about 3 to 4 days. - She keeps...
wanting to say something.
It wasn't as big as you imagine.
It was as little as a dot marked by a pen.
We were going to go to the hospital, but he was fine.
- Then your child was successful. - That's right.
Where did you store that bun for how many days?
It was stored in room temperature.
- Where exactly was that? - The expiry date was...
Say that it was in the living room or on the table.
- That's right. - It was in between the dish rack.
I'm sorry to cut you off, but Da is...
dozing off.
- The seat seems too tight for him. - Earlier,
he kept slapping his cheek with a bottle.
I was shocked.
(He kept slapping his own cheek to stay awake.)
(He proved his worry at the studio.)
(His soul left his body without him realizing.)
Please talk about the potty training.
Just sleep. It's okay.
People say that I should just remove his diaper,
and that will help with the potty training.
However, if I remove his diaper, he pees everywhere.
It was too tough for me to take care of that...
on top of looking after our second child.
I'm thinking that he should be potty-trained...
- before the end of this year. - This year?
I get that you have your own rules with other things,
That sounds a bit irrational.
- but when your baby had a fever of 38℃, - Right.
you didn't take him to the hospital immediately.
If you go to the hospital as soon as your child has...
fever and diarrhea, doctors say...
"Check his condition for the next few days."
"If it gets worse, I'll prescribe a fever reducer."
If the child eats, plays, and poops normally,
- it's okay. - Then it's okay.
I would've taken him right away if he lacked energy.
She's doing it right, then.
- She's doing it right. - She's doing it right.
Even at the hospital, there's no special treatment.
There's nothing. They just wait until the fever's gone.
- They only wipe the baby with a towel. - That's all.
She is right.
- Well... - After listening to your wife,
- it sounds fine. - What she says isn't all wrong.
You should've tolerated a bit more. Why post a story?
We argued because of my son getting sick.
Out of anger, I posted my story.
He lost his temper and posted his story.
- He lost his temper. - However, he's okay now.
His rage has settled now.
- His rage has settled. - He has nothing to say now.
- We've been deceived. - We have.
Then you could've said that you won't come here.
Why are you here?
- To hear others' opinions. - You wanted to listen.
I rarely talk about my personal life to ones around me.
- That's right. - It's like criticizing myself.
That's why you wanted to ask everyone in this country?
- To all Koreans... - We better hear more, but...
you made a good decision.
Your wife needs to be stung mentally...
- because women are exhausted... - That's right.
from doing housework, childcare, laundry, and others.
- Right. Housework's the hardest. - She does...
nothing, yet she says she's tired.
You do nothing. Why are you tired?
My kids sleep around 2 or 3am, sometimes even 4am.
I must get up at 7:30am at the latest for work.
I don't work at an office.
- I keep moving around. - Yes, you visit others.
- Since I move... - You've been raising your kids...
- that way from the start. - I wasn't like this.
I used to do the housework before I sleep even at dawn.
However, after being pregnant with my second baby,
I became sick for a few days if I moved my body a bit.
I think it all started from then.
- Is that true? - Is it true?
- Is it true? - Was it different three months ago?
- Until she stopped working. - She's a good wife.
Are you regretful that you have come here?
We're growing fond of your wife with time.
His parents-in-law came to help him.
I'm not sure how helpful they'll be. Hello.
- Hello. - Welcome to the show.
I'll ask if it runs in her family.
Do you also not enjoy cleaning at home?
I'm not like that.
If I have things to do, even if I can't sleep,
I must finish it to be able to go to sleep.
She's seen it since she was young, so I thought...
- she'd be good at it. - You thought she'd be good.
Here is our concern.
We listened to him, but your daughter denied.
In your opinion, who's right?
I get why he's been worried.
Whenever my daughter visited my place,
I cleaned the whole house...
because she'd point things out and criticize.
- Excuse me? - My gosh.
When she visits, even though I cleaned four days ago,
I need to clean the place all over again.
If she sees mold, she says "Mom, what's this?"
- At your place? - Yes.
Even though her own place is filthy?
I couldn't trust my son-in-law because of that.
My daughter once came because my son-in-law was sick.
You should explain.
Did you already decide on how much to talk?
She'll pass the story to him.
She stayed for almost three months.
A few parcels were delivered.
They were her kids' toys. The pictures you saw...
earlier were in cleaner condition than usual.
(This is clean?)
- I mean it. - It's been cleaned?
Yes.
She started making a mess in my house.
Sometimes I even went home late on purpose.
Her father was also worried.
So your son-in-law is right.
(The table has been turned again.)
As you get older, you miss your grandchildren.
- That's right. - I want to visit their place,
- but it's so dirty. - He only wanted to visit.
I totally felt his worry.
- You sympathized with him. - Yes, completely.
- Ma'am. - You don't even clean your house.
- Why do you point out the mold? - Why point out?
Why do you do that?
They somehow attract my attention.
I'd just see it,
then I'll tell her that there's a bit of grime there.
You should know this.
You have your reasons for everything when it comes...
- to your mom and all. - That's right.
It could get messy with toys,
but things like laundry or potty training is serious.
You're just not admitting it.
You must want to tell her something out of concern.
Any wish for your wife?
In fact, my mother passed away on May 4.
- She passed away suddenly. - My gosh.
- That's why... - It must have been really tough.
I went to work, but I couldn't work.
- That's right. - I couldn't work,
and my house was always in a mess.
You felt down, and it was messy when you came home.
Yes. I couldn't clean up as well as I wanted.
That's why I could...
no longer hold my anger.
Please do a basic cleaning of the house.
When you go home,
- it doesn't have to be spotless, - Exactly.
but if it's a total mess,
- you'll be frustrated. - There's no space to rest.
It could make you upset momentarily.
(Do you get how your husband feels now?)
I guess she didn't know since he doesn't express it.
I knew it was hard for him and that he was worried.
Are you crying because you're sorry?
(What's the meaning of your tears?)
- I was reminded of my mother-in-law. - She's upset.
- She thought about her mother-in-law. - She's upset
If it's sad enough to make you cry...
His mother passed away suddenly.
Sacrificing yourself, taking care of him,
and making efforts to cheer him up are all love,
but you didn't change at all. You only have excuses.
Your husband is really nice, but he lost his temper.
That means he suffered a lot mentally.
He even sent the story.
After hearing that he sent the story,
I thought that it must have been tough for him.
As of now,
I will make efforts to clean up and to move.
I'm sorry.
(I'm sorry.)
- Boom. - Yes.
I think it's a worry.
I learned that expressing your thoughts is crucial.
Both of them work,
so I think it'll be better to divide up the chores.
If you do so, you'll be less tired.
Divide up the housework.
- I think her husband is a really nice guy. - He is.
I hope you'll settle well and resolve the issue.
If you think it's a worry, press the button now.
(What does the audience think?)
The numbers are going up quickly.
- In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, - In 5, 4, 3, 2, 1,
- stop. - Time's up.
Say a few words to your wife.
I sent the story in a fit of temper.
It's been about three years since we got married.
Since we'll live 30 years more together...
Only 30 years?
- Do you have another plan in 30 years? - So soon.
- He must have a good plan. - Was it a contract?
Just 30 years.
- "Marriage must only last 33 years." - At first...
- I'll say it differently. - Okay.
Don't say "anyway" in your speech.
"Since we're married anyway..." That's not right.
- That's right. - Here we go once again.
We have more days to live than the days we've lived.
That's lovely.
Let's be more considerate of each other,
and let's work together to solve this problem.
I love you.
Lovely.
- I am sorry. - Wait. He's got something to say.
Can I say something to my father?
Sure. You can look at that camera and talk.
- He must be alone right now. - Look there.
After Mom passed away,
you've been saying you are okay.
But you look...
small and sad these days.
I will visit you more often...
and fill Mom's absence.
Thank you. I love you, Dad.
He's such a warm-hearted person.
Pyung On, he sent...
a video message to his dad because he's alone.
This is one of the best things you can do for your dad.
- Express yourself to your dad. - He's doing well.
You should express your feelings to him a lot too.
You too, Pyung Hwa.
(We hope they will become a happy family from now on.)
Let's check the result.
Please reveal the result.
"I Want to Clean with My Wife".
("I Want to Clean with My Wife")
Is it going to exceed 100?
Is it over 100?
(Are you still asleep?)
It's 77.
- All right. - Great.
Thank you.
"Are You Sleeping?"...
- won this week. - Yes!
("Are You Sleeping?" wins.)
We will give you a gift certificate. Congratulations!
Until the day we are all worry-free,
Hello will continue to counsel you.
("Johnny Gogo" by G-reyish)